Singles’ Guide to Valentine’s Day: FIVE ways to celebrate solo

Here’s a single’s guide to Valentine’s Day to celebrate solo, including events, self-care ideas and meet-up opportunities.

Celebrate being single this Valentine's Day by doing something out of your comfort zone. Image: Pixabay

Valentine’s Day is often associated with romantic love, but it doesn’t have to be just for couples, and celebrating the day as a single can be liberating.

If you’re single this Valentine’s Day, why not turn it into a celebration of self-love, friendship, and new opportunities?

There are plenty of fun and empowering ways to make the most of 14 February, whether you want to indulge in self-care, meet new people, or simply enjoy the day on your own terms.

BE BRAVE – Join a Valentine’s Day Singles Event

South Africa’s major cities offer plenty of social events designed for singles looking to mingle, make new friends, or even spark a romantic connection.

Speed dating nights, themed parties, and singles’ dinners are popular in Johannesburg, Cape Town, and Durban.

Check out local event listings on platforms like Instagram, Eventbrite, and Facebook for fun gatherings happening near you.

For something a little different, why not try a group hike or adventure activity? Companies like Hike Jozi often organise group outings where you can meet like-minded people while exploring scenic trails.

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Treat Yourself to a Single Self-Care Day

Valentine’s Day is the perfect excuse to indulge in some well-deserved self-care.

Book yourself a spa day at one of South Africa’s luxurious wellness retreats.

If a full spa day isn’t in the budget, a DIY pamper session at home with scented candles, a bubble bath, and your favourite book or movie can be just as enjoyable.

Consider taking a digital detox for the day—switch off social media and spend time doing something you truly enjoy, whether it’s reading, painting, or simply relaxing in nature.

Host a ‘Galentine’s’ or ‘Bro-entine’s’ Gathering

If you have single friends, why not turn Valentine’s Day into a celebration of friendship?

Host a dinner party, game night, or a wine-and-cheese evening at home. You can even make it a themed event, with guests dressing up in red or pink and exchanging small gifts.

For an alternative idea, consider a movie night with empowering films like Eat Pray Love or Legally Blonde, or action-packed blockbusters for a more high-energy vibe.

Explore South Africa Solo

There’s something incredibly liberating about taking yourself on a solo date.

Visit a museum, take a scenic drive along Chapman’s Peak, or enjoy a hike to one of Durban’s beautiful waterfalls.

Many restaurants offer Valentine’s Day specials, so why not book a table and enjoy a luxurious meal with just your own company?

If you’re feeling adventurous, consider a solo weekend getaway. The Garden Route, the Drakensberg, or even a tranquil Karoo retreat are fantastic options for a refreshing break.

Try Something New

Use Valentine’s Day as an opportunity to start a new hobby or challenge yourself in a fresh way.

Take a dance class, try a cooking workshop, or sign up for a pottery session or a houseplant project. Many community centres and private studios offer short classes that are perfect for beginners.

For fitness lovers, why not try something out of the ordinary, like doggy yoga, boxing, or a rock-climbing session?

Not only will you feel great afterwards, but you might even meet new friends in the process.

CELEBRATE BEING single ON Valentine’s Day

Being single on Valentine’s Day doesn’t mean missing out—it’s a chance to celebrate yourself, connect with others, and embrace life on your own terms. Whether you spend the day pampering yourself, meeting new people, or exploring new experiences, remember that love comes in many forms—including self-love.